Question:
How to get revenge legally?
Gwen
2013-04-11 18:59:06 UTC
Please read everything before you answer. Don't give me answers like "let it go" or "forgive and forget" cuz I've already heard those.

So, I was at the midnight release of call of duty with my friends boyfriend Gabe and three of his friends, Dylan Paul and Donovan. Gabe started flirting with me, and I didn't think too much of it. we would flirt all the time, his girlfriend (Jayme) didn't mind. eventually, Donovan left because his dad was going to pick him up. We were all hanging out in gabes car because it was cold outside. Paul and Dylan started joking about how I was the only girl in a car full of guys I barely know and Gabe, but Gabe made them stop. Dylan was in the front seat, so he drove. Dylan and Paul were both in the front, so it was only Gabe and I in the back. It was really dark, and nobody was posting attention, so Gabe felt me up. I felt bad, and I wasn't really very attracted to him, but I'm terrible at saying no, so I just sat there awkwardly. The next week, I was feeling really guilty, so I told his girlfriend. She talked to Paul and Donovan and Dylan, who all told her what they saw, which was me flirting with Gabe. Gabe was the only one that lied. He told her I was trying to seduce him, and that he said no and that I was lying so I could screw up their relationship because I was jealous. Then Jayme got really mad and called me a liar and a whore and told everybody one of my biggest secrets that I once told her because we were friends. She told them that I said I was molested in seventh grade for attention and that I'm full of ****. Now everybody thinks I'm a liar and a whore, and everything worked out perfectly for Gabe. They both have been talking **** ever since, and I've about had it. I've lost too many friends and too much credibility to let it go. I can't report it, because I snuck out to go to the thing, and I'll get in trouble. I need a way to either prove I'm not lying, or get legal revenge on them without getting in trouble.
Three answers:
Anonymous
2013-04-11 19:14:52 UTC
Your only recourse is to try to get him or one of the other guys to talk about it or text about it and capture it digitally since they are the only other 3 people that know what really happened. But revenge...Really? Because you were too timid to tell him to stop and then you went and told his girlfriend as if you had no involvement in it whatsoever? Or you could tell him you want a repeat of the car ride - then record it and send pics of his unfaithfulness to his girlfriend...though cut yourself out first of course. She'll still hate you because again - you LET the guy do it...a real friend tells the guy "I could never do that to my friend and you're a jerk for trying"...and what is there to report even if you hadn't snuck out? You made out with a friend's boyfriend... no wonder she was mad.
Yazzy
2013-04-11 19:02:42 UTC
Do something really passive aggresive. Don't send the evil notes or destroy any of their property cuz that can be linked back to you, but do things to them and their property that make life harder. Move their stuff around to where they can't find out anything, stand in their way, don't do anything violent. Google how to be passive aggressive. It's my favorite thing to do because it gets back at them but in a way thats just barely not harmful enough for you to get in trouble.
?
2013-04-11 19:02:36 UTC
Why the **** were you flirting with another girls man?



STOP IT!


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